SO tell me, why are good feelings so not wanted? I mean we
all love to laugh...right?
SO why do we allow jealousy and low self-esteem and endless
worries and non-real people threaten us?
Do we have to be told every 5 minutes to smile and that we
are all special, unique sweet one of a kind people?
Do we really need to eat that cake or choclate bar?
Do we really need to focus on things that have already
caused us pain and anxiety in our minds?
Do we really need to compare ourselves with every other
person on the block, so to speak?
Are we ever just going to be happy with US?
Do we really want to hurt the ones we love by torturing
ourselves in plain view for them to witness?
Do we have to concentrate on issues til they die?
These are what we, low self-esteemers have to answer time
and time again!!!!!!!
If only people really see how much we wish to be happy and
laugh and feel all those positive confident feelings, they
would be shocked.
We DO NOT let jealousy or worries or non-real people and
for sure low self-esteem threaten us...They just do!
WHy wouldn`t we need to hear all those positive things,
does one raise their children through negative
thoughts...NOT.. We are not children but we are battling
things that non low self-esteemers battle and yes we do need
a bit more TLC.. guess what ..Its FREE!
NO we do not need to eat that cake or candy bar, but if
that is the only way we can feel good then it is what we
will do. So we need to focus on different things to
substitute that feeling, and we know this and we are working
on this.
We never ever want to hurt anyone through our inner
battles, but as we spend a lot of time with our loved ones,
they eventually see us in our turmoil and try with no
succession to help us. This is undoubtably one of the
reasons that drives us to search for answers to get rid of
our negative other mind.
No again NO, we only concentrate or over think things to
try to get a hold of things and convince ourselves that we
have no need to worry, although these efforts turn around on
us and make us look obssessed and build walls between us and
everone else.
all love to laugh...right?
SO why do we allow jealousy and low self-esteem and endless
worries and non-real people threaten us?
Do we have to be told every 5 minutes to smile and that we
are all special, unique sweet one of a kind people?
Do we really need to eat that cake or choclate bar?
Do we really need to focus on things that have already
caused us pain and anxiety in our minds?
Do we really need to compare ourselves with every other
person on the block, so to speak?
Are we ever just going to be happy with US?
Do we really want to hurt the ones we love by torturing
ourselves in plain view for them to witness?
Do we have to concentrate on issues til they die?
These are what we, low self-esteemers have to answer time
and time again!!!!!!!
If only people really see how much we wish to be happy and
laugh and feel all those positive confident feelings, they
would be shocked.
We DO NOT let jealousy or worries or non-real people and
for sure low self-esteem threaten us...They just do!
WHy wouldn`t we need to hear all those positive things,
does one raise their children through negative
thoughts...NOT.. We are not children but we are battling
things that non low self-esteemers battle and yes we do need
a bit more TLC.. guess what ..Its FREE!
NO we do not need to eat that cake or candy bar, but if
that is the only way we can feel good then it is what we
will do. So we need to focus on different things to
substitute that feeling, and we know this and we are working
on this.
We never ever want to hurt anyone through our inner
battles, but as we spend a lot of time with our loved ones,
they eventually see us in our turmoil and try with no
succession to help us. This is undoubtably one of the
reasons that drives us to search for answers to get rid of
our negative other mind.
No again NO, we only concentrate or over think things to
try to get a hold of things and convince ourselves that we
have no need to worry, although these efforts turn around on
us and make us look obssessed and build walls between us and
everone else.
